Recently I came across a blogger wrote an issue about LOVE vs HATE..she said Hate comes from Love. She had given ample examples of couples who eventually turn into enemies.
It really triggers my mind to define these two terms. To me, there ain't any boundaries between Love and Hatred. We may own both of these feelings when we are in a relationship with someone. It could be the situation that decides which roles we take.
For instance, a talkative female married to a quiet male. They love each other and tolerate with one another when they are dating. They found their partners are the best because they compensate the missing part of their life.
After marriage, the situation changes. Illusion is changed into Reality.
How could a quiet man stand the noise all this while? How could a sociable woman stay together with a boring guy?
They start facing the conflict. If it is resolved, they may be closer to each other. If NOT, the ultimate ending most likely is DiVorCe.
They knew the personality of their partners before got married. They regard it as their partner's strength.
However, they are the one who eventually can't tolerate with their spouse's weaknesses.
It's the conflicting situation that cause reality vs illusion until they judge one another differently.
In fact, the love/hatred in their partner's heart has not been triggered yet. It requires trials to prove all things throughout the time.
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